Online Dating Background Check: Simple Steps to Stay Safe
November 15, 2007
Online Dating Background Check: Simple Steps to Stay Safe Are you worried about who lurks behind the keyboard while you are checking out all of profiles on your favorite online dating service? Many people join dating sites, send a few short emails, browse a few appealing profiles and have a little bit of fun, but once it comes time to take the proverbial plunge into the deep waters of meeting that very first person, they get cold feet and back out of the game. Retreat, retreat! Why? Read more
Gold Coast woman stung in internet dating scam ABC Gold and Tweed Coasts
November 14, 2007
Gold Coast woman stung in internet dating scamPosted November 15, 2007 10:00:00 * Map: Southport 4215Police are warning internet users to be wary of dating site scams, after a Gold Coast Read more
Simple Seduction Tips That Work Every Time: Easy Ways to Amp Up the Eros
November 14, 2007
Simple Seduction Tips That Work Every Time: Easy Ways to Amp Up the Eros
Have you noticed how many articles there are online about seduction, what women want and the plethora of easy ways to get there? Have you also noticed how many of those have been written by men? Of course you have! Most of the ones I have come across are simply wrong! Why? Because while they might be good intentioned, they are written for men, but by other guys! Would you listen to your college roommate if he shared 10 tips for seducing a woman the proper way? Probably not, right? I mean, you’ve probably seen him strike out far more times than get on base, and most likely have watched him prepare a date of Monday Night Football and chicken wings far more often than a romantic, candlelight dinner for two, right? Well guess what? Underneath all of that false bravado, that is the EXACT same thing you are getting when you follow the bad advice you find online as well. Let me give you a few simple things (and there are many) that work EVERYTIME with the women I know when they are with a guy they are interested in getting to know better.
Be authentic. Having nachos and beer with a guy who is comfortable in his own skin is FAR sexier than a 5 course meal with a fake. A woman with options is always going to gravitate to a man who is real, cares about real things and TALKS about things that are relevant and important in the world. If you care about your car, your job and your sports team, that is great. If that is ALL you care about, not so much…
But hey, don’t forget if your interests are pretty much limited to those three things, you are in luck! There are plenty of women out there who are also ONLY interested in your car and your JOB, so you will have plenty of matches swimming in the shallow end of the pool!
Be smart. EVERY woman is turned on by a smart guy. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Smart is always sexy and If you are an attractive guy to begin with, your intelligence is going to make you a VERY happy and in-demand guy. Women like to be challenged emotionally, spiritually and intellectually, and this evolves with age. If you want to really seduce your girlfriend, read books and share them with her. Nothing is a bigger turn-on for me than when a man gives me a book that he has loved and asks me to read it. No matter how much she may cheer for the team on Sunday or Monday night, your girlfriend wants to grow together, and smart guys just get this right off the bat. Take a look at the best looking supermodels and celebrities; more often than not the man you will see them with is a nerdy, sort of intellectual type, right? Trust me, intelligence is a HUGE turn-on!
Be interested! This is huge guys. If you are interested in your girl, she feels it in the very fabric of her being. And that is very, very sexy…..And you need to be authentic about it, a passing interest in her day, or her new male boss or coworker doesn’t count! Be interested in her dreams, her goals, her childhood, her fears, her spirit….that is what turns a woman on and makes her feel comfortable and confident and safe. And a woman, who feels these emotions WANT to be with you, wants to feel incredible closeness and intimacy with YOU because it is a simple extension of that connection. You will never struggle with the art of seduction if your girl feels like you are the ONE she feels connected to, and my guess is you won’t need to be checking out any more online articles on how to make it happen, either!
Online Dating For Dummies:
November 4, 2007
Here is an interesting article about one couple who just couldn't keep it together after a brief, online love affair. Now I don't know about you, but this seems to be more of question suited for Dear Abby, rather than Dear Amy - who I have honestly never heard of. Which makes me suspicious straight away about the advice she offers. Plus - to be perfectly frank - this guy seems very distraught that the woman he broke up with after meeting online has been saying bad things about him on her blog. He - conversely, claims he has said nothing bad about her on HIS blog. This very well might be the problem. They are both blogging too much. Never date a woman with a blog - I've said it many times, the less literate your girlfriend is, the better off you'll be. Blogging is over-rated, and I prefer the women I meet online don't read at all ( outside of reading my profile frequently ). I don't know. Plus I was just reading that there is all kinds of evidence that the world might come to an end on 2012 or something like that according to the Mayan calendar or Nostradamus or something like that. So blogging is a total waste of time - you need to get out there and meet someone new! Before it's too late. You can read the full article at the link below..;-)
Online dating turns sour, but don't retaliate Amy Dickinson | Ask Amy: October 25, 2007 Dear Amy: I met an online acquaintance several months ago. After eventually meeting, I soon realized that I didn't love her the way I thought I did. During our relationship, she would want to talk on the phone upward of six times a day because of her history of seeing guys who betrayed her trust.It eventually started to be a chore talking to her. After about two months, I got out of the relationship and I felt free not having to "check in" or say "I love you" when I didn't mean it.Now she belittles me in her blog among our mutual friends and continually chats online with my friends, spinning the truth about what happened. She says I cheated on her, which never happened. She has harassed me with expletive-filled phone messages and has turned my friends against me.Amy Dickinson Amy DickinsonBio | Recent columnsI haven't said anything bad about her on my blog.Should I return fire and explain to my friends what really happened, or should I continue to do nothing and keep a golden disposition? She can't move on and is focusing the spotlight on herself by putting our private business public on her blog. What should I do?
Online dating turns sour, but don't retaliate — Newsday.com
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