How to tell if she is Wild in Bed: Watch for This Guaranteed Giveaway!

March 31, 2008

How to tell if she is Wild in Bed:  Watch for This Guaranteed Giveaway! 

I always find it funny that I get a lot of mail from guys who have just sort of started seeing someone, and haven't quite taken their relationship to the next level from an intimacy standpoint…often they are looking for some kind of verbal or physical SIGN that their new girl is an erotic and exotic lover.  Is there some kind of tangible quality that your girlfriend is a GIANT turn-on in bed?  I might get myself in trouble here with women everywhere, but I am going to say a big, fat YES there is!  Read on as I clue you in on the subtle cues YOU need to keep your eyes peeled for, and more..:-) 

The absolute EASIEST way to read a sensual woman is in her communication skills….the overt and obvious, as WELL as the subtle and self conscious.  I know from my own personal experiences, as well as those of my MANY girlfriends who have shared much of their own erotic likes and lusts in conversation, that you can see an erotic woman from a MILE away if you know what to look for.  Watch her walk….her posture, eye contact and subtle physicality.  Is she AGGRESSIVE in her ordinary body movements, is she exceptionally flirty in conversational situations?  If she is…guess what?  She is probably MORE reserved in bed than you think!  Strange, but true! 

The women that I know that UNIFORMLY have a higher and more erotic engine are almost always the more subtle and conversationally quiet and a bit wall flowery in their approach in social situations!  Once comfortable though – all of that goes out the window, trust me! When our grandmothers generation said it was the "quiet ones you have to watch", they weren't kidding…and while there are always exceptions to the rule, you can take this to the bank with your next shy date:  Once she's comfortable with you, the quiet act WILL go out the window quick, and you will be left with an adventurous and passionate lover who expresses herself where it counts, trust me..;-)  Have fun!

How to be Absolutely Amazing in Bed: This WILL do the Trick!

March 31, 2008

Make Her Swoon with These Sinfully Sexy Moves!  We just submitted this article to one of the popular online directories earlier today, taking a birds eye view at a few of the  simple things you can do to be magnificently masculine…yet, still be an amazingly sensitive, erotic and unbelievably passionate partner in bed…which for many women is the absolute Male IDEAL..:-)  (present company included!) 

Many men still don't realize how important it is to a woman to be with a guy who can make us MELT with a simple touch, an electric caress, or even with the right LOOK in our general direction!   If you can do any of the above in a sexy and seductive way, as I'm sure you know – you will NEVER be starved for attention, or affection, from erotic and beautiful women everywhere!  Read on as we explore: 

1) When was the last time you TEASED your girl in bed?  You know she wants you; she's telling you she's ready, yet….you hold off and make her wait?   She might not TELL you this, but anticipation is an AMAZING turn on – and if you can turn this up a notch, trust me, so too will her hormones follow suit! 

2) How adventurous are you in bed…or anywhere else for that matter..;-)  Once a woman gets comfortable with her man, TRUST me when I tell you, she wants you to take the lead and explore new territory.  Ironically, while we are more frequently slower to want to take it to the next level ( you guys are ready before hello..;-) once we are into you, it's normally the WOMAN who wants to amp up the erotic energy…and her guy who doesn't pick up on the subtle signs she's sending. 

And of course there is much more….But, if you want to get a little sexy head start with your girl next time she's giving you that longing look, try a bit of the above, and see how much longer that look lasts, next time..:-)  Trust me, you'll both thank me for sharing!

How To Start Dating Again: Be a Dating Dahling♪♪♪

March 29, 2008

Here is a great little article on "Dating Dahling" Candace McKenzie and her recommendations to EVERYONE getting back in the dating game…or simply just getting started as well!  I've actually read a few of her little pointers in the past, and she is a witty, funny and engaging reader on ALL things dealing with meeting your perfect match.  And don't expect warm and fuzzy little anecdotes alone…..Candace is known, as mentioned below, for her blunt honesty sort of reminiscent of " he's just not into you" dating mantra.  You can check her out at the link below!

It's really about self-esteem and working on that first," said Dating Dahling Candace McKenzie as she spoke to a room of university students Thursday afternoon. "Then those right choices and right people will come along."McKenzie, a dating coach and author of "Be A Dating Dahling," was in town for a lecture and book signing in the Alumni Center at East Carolina University. It was the first event in the Alumni Association's new series called, "Published Pirates." McKenzie graduated from ECU in 1991 with a bachelor's degree in theater arts, before she moved to Los Angeles and became an expert in serial dating.ECU News Bureau(ENLARGE)Candace McKenzie, a dating coach and author of 'Be A Dating Dahling,' speaks with an East Carolina student after a discussion session about relationships Thursday at the ECU campus. Her experiences, as well as those of her divorced friends, are all fair game as she teaches the single how to date safely and practically now, "because dating today is a lot different."On Thursday, she covered all the basics — ways to approach a person of interest, the first date, when and how it's OK to kiss, pick-up lines, breaking up, sex, stalkers and online dating — while answering relationship-based questions from the students.But anyone looking for a nice "love-at-first-sight-is-real" talk, would've been a bit disappointed. McKenzie remained blunt and honest, even through her humorous anecdotes."If they don't call you back, they're not interested," McKenzie told one student. "That's it.""Be A Dating Dahling" is a book of 31 conversational chapters with no more than a few pages of stories, tips and Dating Dahling mantras. McKenzie said she always wanted to write a book, and decided to publish this one after gaining enough experience in the dating world.

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Do Dating Sites Do Background Checks? Watch Your Own Back!

March 28, 2008

Talk about a false sense of security….True.com is once again pushing it's background check mandate to the United States Congress, essentially trying to force all of it's competitors who do NOT perform background checks ( Read:  All the REST of them..:-) on their members into having to DISCLOSE this prominently on their sites.  Detractors ( ourselves included!) know this is a simple marketing machination, designed to give us ALL a false sense of security about the people we are meeting online.  cartoon profiles.jpgHey - this is a FREE Country folks, and no one checks your background in a bar, a bowling alley or a supermarket.  Make some good choices, be PERSONALLY responsible and don't date any strange guys with a facial tic from Peoria.  Those are the only laws you need to follow…:-)  You can read the rest of the story at the link below ( and trust me when I tell you it won't ever become law…plus as the article mentions - MATCH.com ALREADY discloses this voluntarily on their site)

She's looking for some E-harmony. He just got out of E-block at the penitentiary.Online dating services would have to tell you whether they at least tried to find out whether your perfect match is also a match in a criminal records check, under a bill approved by a Senate committee.It's a perennial bill, pushed by one online dating company, True.com, that does background checks.Opponents of the measure say True.com is just trying to get a marketing advantage over other companies who - if they don't do background screenings - would have to say so prominently on their site under the bill (SB 1536). It was approved in the Senate Commerce Committee over the objection of those who said it offers a false sense of security.Other online dating companies oppose the bill, saying background checks aren't reliable because they can't verify who the person actually signing onto the site is. Some also say online dating isn't any different from real-world meeting places, such as bars, that don't do background checks on patrons.

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What is Speed Dating Online? Another Reason To Buy a Webcam

March 27, 2008

speed dating_2.jpgIf you are still single, buying a webcam might be a good investment to truly make the most of online speed dating - skype style!  According to various published reports, the success of off line speed dating has spawned the online sort of the same - being backed by "WooMe" which apparently has the big bucks of the VOIP boys ( and girls) Skype to deepen it's pockets..:-)  Now, I've never been really good at ditching people on a bad date OFFLINE - so a quick 60 second video chat doesn't sound like too bad of any idea, especially when the sofa, a cold beer and CNN or SportsCenter make for  a great companion if you find the face staring back at you less appealing than Larry King.  Check out the whole story at the link below:

Either great minds think alike or single people are getting really desperate these days. Several Web start-ups have suddenly sprouted to bring the 21st-century phenomenon known as speed dating to the Web.Speed-dating is that hyperkinetic ritual where single folks gather to meet each other one by one, round-robin style, in short face-to-face chats. If couples hit it off, they exchange contact information and get together later, hopefully for longer periods of time. The practice is about a decade old and started in the Los Angeles Jewish community.WooMeCredit the proliferation and improvement of Web cameras — and the tantalizing promise of the lucrative online dating market — for speed dating’s latest evolution. San Francisco-based WooMe, backed by the same group that created Skype, is privately testing its online speed-dating service now. Its video conferencing system matches members in rapid-fire video chat sessions lasting one minute, which is almost too long, according to Stephen Stokols, WooMe’s chief executive.

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How to Meet Women Online the Easy Way: Meet them Online!

March 24, 2008

How to Meet Women Online the Easy Way:  Meet them Online!

kiwi.jpgWe recently submitted this article to one of the popular directories on dating and relationships…and it AMAZES me still how many single people are still NOT using the veritable avalanche of online dating opportunities available to rapidly, safely and sexily expand their social horizons in a hurry, and start having some single life fun once again.  If you find yourself home alone and stuck for plans on the weekends, and find yourself making lame excuses about not having single friends to hit the bar scene with - ENOUGH is enough, already! Stop making excuses - and go have some fun!  You can meet plenty of women ( or men) as I try to point out in the article below, and start enjoying your life again, and make the whole thing happen in a hurry.  Look, life is short, we want you all to have fun and make the most of it - plus Spring and summer ARE coming, and we all know the sultry seasons are best spent with a sexy partner….so go find one..:-) You can read the full article below, or simply skip it and go find yourself a date!

In this article we are going to look at the quick and easy way to meet women in the 21st century (and probably way beyond as well).  Unless you've been living under a metaphorical rock for the past half a decade, you are very familiar with the magnificent Mecca of love and lust for single people everywhere.  Internet dating sites.   Read on as we look a bit closer at why you NEED to be dating online if you aren't already! 

 If you find yourself continuously searching for Ms. "right" at every corner bar, supermarket, Movie Theater or gaudy nightclub, I've got a HUGE newsflash for you.  You are missing out on just about the EASIEST and low stress way possible to meet the woman of YOUR dreams…and have a blast looking for her as well!  I can't tell you how many of my friends have met a ton of cute guys online, had some fun and simply played the field as they searched for the right man for them.  Hey – nothing says you have to be a saint or a nun on your quest for the perfect person for you, either.  What does this mean?  How about A LOT of fun for just about everything who gets out there and plays the game! 

It used to be that you needed to live in a big city, or be a big partier to date different hot single women week in and week out.  No longer, guys!  All you need to do is step out there a little bit and get in the game.  It's easy – it costs less than a cheap date often to sign up for 3 or 4 months, and once you do, regardless of what you look like, what kind of car you drive or job you've got, you are almost GUARANTEED a season of flirtatious fun..:-)  So get out there and stop waiting for someone to knock on your door – make it happen and get lucky by this weekend…I promise you won't regret it!

How To Tell if She's Right For You: This Should Give it Away!

March 24, 2008

How to tell if she's right for you:  

online dating.jpgIn this article we are going to take another look at how to tell if the girl you've got your eye on is the right girl for you, or whether you should keep one eye open just in case someone better comes around..:-)  Read on as we cover the tell tale signs that men occasionally will miss, and rapidly come to regret later! 

Just about every friend I have who is married, engaged or in a serious, long term committed relationship will tell you that something happens when you meet the right mate for you.  Sometimes it's hard to define, a subtle something that is easily qualified OTHER than you just know you've met your soul mate.  Some men look at a woman an simply fall in love with her appearance, women gravitate to a man's charisma and magnetism and just feel a connectivity that can't be put into meager and miniscule words.  Again, there is simply a knowing that this is the person that completes the void within you that has begged to be filled. 

I say…trust your gut.  How does she make you feel?  Are there butterflies where there once was cockiness and security?  Is there nervousness where there once was calm and collected confidence?  Very simply, is there a feeling inside of you that for odd reason you can't quite define, a mysterious magnetism and magic you feel when she's around?  This is the ineffable language of love speaking – the serendipitous natural law of a karmic connection that I believe underpins just about EVERY great love story between a man and a woman!  Have you found it yet?  If not – you've settled for less than what you were meant to have.  And if you have….well, you simply know what it is, what it feels like and what life looks like once you've got it!  And if you don't – or haven't yet, you simply need to get up and get it, before someone else does – I promise, you'll thank me later once you do!

How to Drive Your Woman Wild: 3 Secrets to Amp Up the Eros!

March 17, 2008

 

How to Drive Your Woman Wild: These Three Tips Will do the Trick 

SignGreatSex.jpgIn this article we are going to take a quick look at a few things you can do to heighten your sense of erotic adventure the next time you are intimate with your girl.  And yes, it is true that many relationships end or simply never get off the ground due to an overwhelming sense of sensual boredom…usually felt most strongly by the woman!  Don't let her "good girl" image fool you!  While we tend to be more emotionally charged in our erotic relationships, it does not mean that boring…is ok.  Actually, the girl you've got your eyes on probably has a much more adventurous imagination than you know, it's up to you to get inside of it and let that "wild child" out!  So read on as I point out three simple sensual secrets you can incorporate into your romantic repertoire right now! 

1)      Experiment with the Senses:  Touch, Sound, Sight and more…These are very erotic and highly charged sensations if you amp them up just right.  And play with the absence of these very same senses….NOT being able to see, for example, is often as much of a turn on as seeing everything..:-)

2)      Incorporate erotic arts and games.  You would be amazed how the imagination will light up with sensual word play – or game play.  You will never know what TRULY turns her on until you step out into the erotic adventure of dropping the proverbial walls that we all construct around our sexuality

3)      Taste is an incredibly powerful driver for sex.  If you can master the art of food preparation as an aphrodisiac, this is a VERY sexy trait in a man…and NOT just because we like to eat! 

So there you have it.  3 simple, but VERY sensual secrets to turning on your woman…and doing it in imaginative ways that I promise will make her very happy!  Have fun..:-) 

How to make her wild with passion: Do This Now and Make Her Melt

March 16, 2008

 How to make her wild with passion:  Do This Now and Make Her Melt 

lust-guy biting.jpgIn this article we are going to take a quick peek at some of the simple pleasures so many guys overlook when trying to drive their girl wild.  So many guys read all of the "tips" and tricks written by other men, and then wonder why they're no FURTHER along the prefect path for passion and pleasure with a beautiful woman of their dreams.  So if you are ready to get one in a LONG list of secret, sensational sexy secrets you can incorporate in your game right now, read on as I hook you up..:-) 

Ok guys, this one works just about EVERY time on just about EVERY woman, and I can personally attest to it's effectiveness!  You need a good sized bottle of wine, (preferably red) a blindfold, and some dark chocolate.  What you are going to do is quite simple.  Once you are in that intimate space, and you can feel the emotional nerve endings starting to get taut in the room, you are going to very simply and slowly feed and serve her the wine and chocolate, and of course you are going to do this VERY sensually and while she is very blindfolded..:-)  And of course there is only so much detail I can go into here, but suffice it to say, this is a hugely EROTIC and passionate pressure cooker of the highest degree!  If you've watched the movie "91/2 Weeks" you can sort of get a good feel as to where this is going…and trust me when I tell you, it goes somewhere good! 

And of course there is much, much more…But this simple erotic adventure WILL bring you to a place of passion, pleasure and the kind of prosperity that money just can't buy!

Read on for 7 more sensational secrets to getting ANY woman you want…even if you are short, bald and shy as a mouse!

 

What Your Woman REALLY Wants - And How to Make Sure She Gets it!

March 11, 2008

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love-sex_1.jpg Here are few simple pointers for you guys who find yourselves proverbially in the dark trying to figure out your girls mind ( or anywhere else on her body for that matter...  Simple, short and straight to the point, these should have your girl seeing double EVERY time you two get together, and I'm NOT talking about her eyesight..:-)  Read more

How To Be Better in Bed and Make Her Melt!

March 11, 2008

sex sells.jpgHere is an article that we submitted to a popular article directory and was VERY popular - I thought I would re-share some of these short thoughts on seduction and erotic technique with some of our loyal ( MALE) readers here..:-)  For all you women who are checking this out and wondering WHERE is your section on the same….trust me when I tell you it's coming, and soon.  ( Hey…no pun intended…get your minds out of the gutter.  We have a number of these that I will be posting throughout the site, so guys….if you REALLY want that woman to be knocked down, bolled over and simply OVERCOME with hot, erotic lust for YOU next time she lays eyes ( or any other body part for that matter) on you - read some of these simple pointers, and you will be WELL on your way!

One of the biggest challenges that you probably face in your relationships with women is how to amp up the erotic energy in creative and comfortable ways. No one wants to be bored in the bedroom, and I guarantee you, that applies to your girl as well. Sometimes guys will write in and confide to me - "well, how do I know if she's bored?" My response? If you have to ASK..the chances are she IS! Ouch! Lets look at a few easy ways you can increase the passion both in your bedroom..and out!

The most important thing you can do to increase the eros in your lovemaking is simply being open…being receptive to new experiences and adventures in passion. So many men are closed off when it comes to trying new things…and even though they think they are really good lovers, quite simply…they aren't.

How much do you communicate with your partner? Women simply go wild for a man who can express himself in creative and passionate ways. You can do this in both physical..and non physical ways..:-) What about mental foreplay? No, not just sex…but what comes BEFORE can often times be the most highly charged, energized part of the lovemaking process. And I don't care if you've JUST met…or have been married for 10 years. Ambiance is an excellent way to accentuate the obvious..:-) What do I mean? Well, create an unbelievably erogenous atmosphere and the actual air particles themselves will be highly charged with ANTICIPATION and excitement.

These are the simple things you can do overnight to become a better lover. And they have NOTHING to do with your physical prowess, which of course, we have covered at far greater length in other areas! Every step is a new discovery…and the simple ones above WILL take your intimacy..and imagination to huge new heights. ( and hers too - I promise!) And remember…a huge imagination is key! Have fun and see you on the other side.

Ready to take some action on the veritable pandoras box of magical, mysterious, and magnetic ways we've learned to get ANYTHING you want from ANY beautiful woman?

How about finding a woman to practice with!  If you don't have a warm, wild and outrageously sexy partner to play with tonight - it's time to get one.  Summer is right around the corner…and the hot and sultry months are best spent sweating with that special someone …;-)  Life is short, what are you waiting for?

Who is Finding Love Online? The Answer May Shock You!

March 11, 2008

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It seems like just about everyone is getting in on the online dating act these days…including some less than likely suspects like those pictured above!  But you are worried about meeting a real dog, right?  Hey - it didn't stop these two stunning creatures - why let it stand in your way of finding true love the online way? 

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