In this article we are going to take a quick and powerful look at how you can amp up your game a few solid ticks in the passionate and purposeful direction of being sexy and seductive…with the more mature, and discerning set! This is a whole different challenge than making the move on your typical college coeds…and if you think the same stale stuff is going to work on a beautiful, mature woman who KNOWS what she wants…and what she needs..think again!  

Ok guys…Here is the number one way I know of to make your move up in class with a beautiful woman: Become a discerning and refining man of MANY tastes…Learn about the world and most importantly…become a man who can master the soothing salve of the feminine SPIRIT. There is undoubtedly a significant and sexy, sinful power of a man who knows his own body…and how to use it. But this does grow old..and fast! But a man who understands his (and her) spirit..who can capture and create an ineffable sense of sensuality through the ephemeral qualities of spirit..this is INCREDIBLY sexy..especially to a mature, and beautiful woman who has already mastered the art of her own physicality..NOW she wants the union of mind, body and spirit…and NEEDS a man who will take that incredibly joyful journey with her.

I have 3 friends..right now..all getting out of long term relationships who are simply stunning, unusually attractive women in their 30's - who turn heads on the beach and the boardroom. And in private..each one has shared the same thirst: The want and need for a man who will take that very same trip of spirit and soul and meaning! And of course, they'd kill me for sharing this..but if you can become the master of this terrain…you are going to be the kind of man that women like this melt for EVERY time. ( even while your better looking or richer friends fail over and over!)

 

Ok, guys...Let's talk for a few minutes about alcohol and it's place in your seduction secret tool kit..:-) Look, let's be honest. Drunken encounters are ALWAYS going to play a big part in cheap hook ups…and regardless of whether you are on a college campus, big buck boardroom or even in a long stale marriage or relationship..there is something simply transformative when it comes to a little bit of booze and our hormones. But you can make some BIG time mistakes if you are counting on a little social lubrication to get your way with the woman of your dreams….and can instead end up with a nightmare you NEVER bargained for. Let's take a quick look at a few things you NEED to avoid.

•  Know when to say when: Look - we've ALL made the same mistakes so we can probably agree that drunk enough..is indeed drunk enough! There is an old saying about stopping the drill once you've hit oil. Well guess what, guys? That applies here too! If you are both sufficiently inebriated to make the decision to jump in the sack ( even though you've just met, she's your best friends sister or is the bosses wife!) there is no reason to get sinfully sloppy! Keep some modicum of self awareness and self control..and this will keep a questionable decision from spiraling WAY out of control!
•  Here is a tip for guys looking for a wild woman underneath the librarian get up: Wine is a wonderful accoutrement to a great dinner and often leads to a fantastic and delicious desert... If you are hanging out with a beautiful woman, boys…don't break out the Maddog 20/20 or kick out the keg you have left from last nights beer bash! A nice bottle of even an inexpensive but sweet wine is very soothing…and VERY sexy! If she is open to a few drinks at your place - having a few bottles of wine is a GREAT investment!

And of course, the best advice is NOT to make your first magical moment of sexy seduction a drunken one! Sure….a few dates in, or a great night out, this can be a TON of fun! But I have rarely started ( or seen) a relationship build and bloom on the back of drunken seductive start..it's always best to start out sober - I promise! 

In this article we are going to take a quick look at how you can be a magnificent maestro of magical verbal seduction tips...and how simply through by practicing the fine art and science of the language of love, you cam amp up your efforts to score with MORE women…and FAST! Ready? Great! Read on as we explore.

If you are reading this you don't need me to tell you that there are simply some men that regardless of what they look like, what kind of job or future prospects they may have, are ALWAYS surrounding by a bunch of battling, beautiful babes all trying to make it with our guy in question. You however…most likely are better looking, have a good job and even better future prospects, yet can't seem to land the same type of women you deserve. The likelihood simply is this: You DO NOT have the necessary communication skills to make her weak in the knees and bend to your every command. This is the bad news. The good news is this: You CAN learn these silky, smooth skills just the same as you can learn to ride a bicycle, shoot baskets or learn to paint. It simply requires practice…and a willing audience to practice on!

The types of things you will need to master? Again, quite simple. To be authentic, sincere and engaging go without saying. But to be able to be genuine…all the while being HYPNOTIC in your delivery and conversation eloquence..to have her RIVETED to your every word, seemingly magnetized by your charm and charisma..this takes a little bit more. You need to understand the primary drivers of the female mind..her needs, wants and INNERMOST desires. And once you do - a seemingly endless volcanic eruption of attention is yours - women WILL flock to you, melt around you and simply WANT to be in your powerful presence - I promise!

So there you have it - the basic mind-map is there. You just need to take the first step..and embark on the journey of much purpose…and even more passion! Have fun and hope to see you on the other side..:-)

 

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In this article we are going to take a quick look at some quick and easy simple seduction tips that I can share with you that won't cost you an arm or a leg…but might end up getting you a whole lot more than that if you put them to work..:-) Let's take a peek at some simple sexy things you can incorporate right now into your magical mojo to make you "almost" irresistible to the girl you've got in your sights. Ready? Great, let's do it. 

The top three things that a beautiful woman looks for in a man? Very simple. It all comes down to the rule of the 3 C's. I don't care what you look like, how much money you make or what your future prospects look like. If you can capture the 3 c.'s….you will have all kinds of magnificent women bending to your wild and wooly wants and desires. Here they are:

•  Confidence
•  Character
•  Comedy

Quite simply, confidence is that intangible, ineffable quality in a well composed man that simply can't be faked. It can be learned - but you can't pretend to have it for long….It's there, or it's not. If you've got it, we want it ( and you! )

Character is again..that undefinable quality that means we can count on you - you are solid, and dependable. That does not mean BORING! It simply means we know who you are and we want you around for the long haul.

Comedy? Well, you must be funny! I don't care how much money you make, or how GOOD you look in that pinstriped jacket - if you can't make me laugh…get lost! Every woman wants a man who can keep her laughing, and on her toes and a guy with a great sense of humor is very sexy and seductive.

And of course..if you can put these three together - you will be money with just about EVERY woman you want to seduce. Some might play hard to get..others might take a while longer…but if you learn how to be filled with confidence, character and be the proverbial comedian that ties it all together..your problems are going to be TOO many choices, not too few, trust me on that!

Let's talk for a few minutes about how to create an incredible air and ambiance of luscious lust with your new partner. The advantage you are going to have here is SO many men are so woefully inadequate when it comes to matters of intimacy and imagination that when you set the stage for sensual seduction….well, she's going to be so blown away and weak with want…that you are both going to have a mind bending experience of explosive erotic energy.

Remember to always set the stage, just like we've talked about before.Make her WANT you more and more with each magical moment - make food, wine and song part of the serenade and the sweet sounds of success won't be far off.

Seduction is a dance of the MIND far more than the bending of the body. Make her mind move in mysterious, mystical directions and her body WILL follow suit. Again, successful seduction always begins WAY before the bedroom antics begin. Sure…once you know someone well, and the familiarity factor has settled in, most relationships hit that hum of happenstance, but in the very beginning..THIS is where you need to create the tension, the longing and the lust for more that is so palpable..it becomes to much to resist. This, is the key to being a master of seduction…and if you can put this together with the other things we have mastered…you will not be denied, I promise!

Remember…it is ALL of these efforts..stacked up, one on the other that makes you powerful, irresistible and incredibly sexy!

In most situations, as we've discussed before - you are going to have to approach a beautiful woman and incorporate lots of the other techniques we've discussed to be get her in a position to REALLY be sexy and seductive. But sometimes, as I'm sure you've noticed with friends, or just heard a great story about, a sinfully seductive woman in her own right will just want you to make your move…and do it fast! Yes, guys - women occasionally are just like you and will zero in on a confident, composed and utterly magnificently magnetic maestro of mojo, just like yourself..:-) She wants to "speed up" the introductions, cut the "red tape" and just dive in to the incredible erotic energy that is building between you.

So how do you make this happen, and get it done before someone else jumps in and takes your place? Easy. You exude the characteristics of elegance that we've already talked about. You engage her erotic energies…channel them through your own confidence and incorporate your own sense of urgency and understanding into her needs, and then simply and easily, take control

Take her home. There is no need for long loquacious speeches or rambling philosophical dissertations, regardless of what some other dating "gurus" might tell you here. It's simply about two passionate and purposeful, confident and attractive people getting together and not caring about all of the formalities. But of course…this takes a confident and composed man to make happen. Most guys will simply drop the ball here, and if I had to guess…you probably have yourself (even if you don't even realize the opportunity was there).

Again - each situation is a bit different. You simply need to apply your best, most persuasive powers to each particular escapade! But this is a good problem to have now, don't you agree? Just make sure you stay confident, self aware and keep your purpose a prime priority. No dilly dallying or fumbling the ball…a speed seduction is sinful and occasionally VERY sexy - they don't happen often, but when the opportunity knocks, well - you better know how to answer the door..:-) By now you most CERTAINLY should!

In this article we are going to take a look at some of the different psychological, or cognitive biases between men and women and see how you can leverage the disparity in mental makeup between the two sexes to "make out" magnificently with the girl of your dreams. So let's dive in!

First of all, as we've covered many times before..women and men have different physiological, as well as psychological "turn on" points. We also have, more importantly ( and maybe even more often illustrated when YOU are trying to pick up a hot woman ) different "turn OFF" points as well… When it comes to romance, and sex and intimacy…what makes a woman melt is often FAR different than what turns you guys on. 

Here is a great, subliminal tip that you can use to keep your girl always WANTING and looking forward to more. Women are VERY much future oriented and long term disposed in terms of our thinking. Men are much often far more short term oriented in terms of plans, relationships and even their own ultimate purpose. A woman will typically be forward thinking… and tend to be very visual about what that future looks like. So the key is, if you are trying to keep her interested, and yourself interesting… keep her off balance with surprises, and sudden spontaneous, sexy soirées all while incorporating conversational elements and energies about what the future holds.

This is a VERY good approach for magical mental seduction as well..having her PICTURE and describe to her what intimacy is going to look like, feel like and BE like when it happens…all the while building tension with tangible, real time little surprises and daily distractions that keep her on her toes. In a sense you are laying the foundation for both certainty….and the unexpected - which ANY practitioner of the erotic arts ( as well as many other psychological sciences) will tell you is the KEY to of excitement, passion and lust for life (and love!)

In this article we are going to quickly cover some of the things you can be doing to amp up the erotic energy for your girl, wife or lover… after all, we think she deserves it, right? Good! Read on…

The key to having sensational, sexy erotic lovemaking is incorporating the MIND and imagination into the process of making her want you in ways she hasn't even quite realized. How do you do this you ask? Well, for one…you have to learn the art of the two T's. Timing, and Teasing. Most men, as I'm sure you are quite well aware (and hopefully aren't one!) are used to VERY quick and selfish intimate adventures…EVEN when they think they are being quite giving. Look - let me be TOTALLY honest with you.

Women have FAR more stamina than you guys do. It's really that simple. So if you want to keep up with YOUR woman..or impress the one you've just started hooking up with, you NEED to practice the tease… slowly but surely build up the tension and the energetic erogenous zones in your woman. And then of course, TIMING is everything…you have to wait for the very picture PERFECT moment to make sure she is ready, and of course… that you are too!

Again, remember that much of this is PURELY mental..and we have covered this is far greater detail in other areas, so I'm certain you know JUST the right things to say..and do! Just remember… men my come and go…but a phenomenal lover is NEVER forgotten.

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