Want to Seduce a Woman Fast? 3 Sensational Secrets
April 1, 2008
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I was reading a few blog posts, RSS feeds and dating/relationship articles earlier today and it absolutely AMAZES me how many of the advice columns written for seducing a woman are written for men…BY other MEN! And this makes absolutely no sense to me, whatsover..:-) If I want to know what it going on in that brooding brain of my boyfriend, the very LAST person I'm goign to ask is another woman. I want a MAN'S perspective. Makes sense, right? Well - with this in mind, let's cover some REAL ways to seduce your next online date...but of course, only after you've gotten to know each other a bit - no need to rush into something that you will regret later. Read on as I give you some GOOD sexy advice for a change ( if you've been reading some of the other garbage out there!)
This article may not be too popular with some of my feminist friends, but I'm going to let you in on a little secret that most women simply won't share: Your girlfriend WANTS to be seduced just as much as you want to do the seducing! Gender roles are quite what they used to be, there are lingering effects of societal appropriateness and etiquette that often stand in the way of BOTH of you having the mind melting, electrifying intimate encounter that you each want to happen…and quick! Why doesn't it? Very simple. Often times you simply don't know what buttons to push with your new girl…and thus, she feels the need to conform to a standard that we all know went the way of our parent's generation…FAR before the days of TMZ.com, Paris Hilton and the "new" radical feminism of the 21st century. So without any more social commentary or philosophy…here are the 3 simple things you can do TONIGHT to cut to the chase, stop the games and give her the kind of luscious lust that she craves as much as you do.
1) Engage her COMPLETELY and utterly in conversational heaven. Talk with her…not TO her, and not about yourself. Allow her to share herself emotionally and intellectually with you first….and she will be EAGER to share her physicality as well soon thereafter.
2) Stimulate her senses: A desirable woman WANTS to be seduced. That's part of the magic, and the adventure and the ENTITLEMENT of being a beautiful woman. She doesn't want to feel like an ordinary encounter is coming…she wants to feel like it's going to be SENSATIONAL. Make it happen by touching all of her sensory buttons BEFORE you get intimate!
3) Express your OWN personal power. Look, again – at the risk of upsetting my feminist roots, a woman WANTS to be with a powerful guy. Power of course, is a perspective that may shift from woman to woman…sensitivity may be very sensual and powerful in one man, yet another emanates the warm and welcoming glow of primal masculinity. The key is to be yourself – "to thine own self be true" and you will be perpetually powerful…tonight, and well beyond as well.
That's it guys. Three "quickies" for you! Remember, seduction is an art and a science – but the laboratory is a fun place to play if you have the right tools..;-)
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