1 Top Tip for Online Daters: The Not So Sexy Secret to Online Success

June 2, 2008

One More Top Tip for Online Daters: The Not So Sexy Secret to Online Success

Let's take a quick look at one of the biggest and most frequent questions we get via email these days…MOSTLY from people who are just starting to get motoring on the online dating scene. (what took you so long people??)

(And no….don't let them scare you…there is NO bigger risk finding love on the internet as there is at the corner bar after 8 shots of tequila and a basket of bad chicken wings, and that's just for HAPPY hour..;-)

So if you are just getting started with picking the perfect online dating to meet your elusive soul mate, keep this simple but potently powerful personality tip in mind:

Don't take ANYTHING personally.

People have STUFF. Just because you posted your very best picture of yourself looking absolutely fab on the beach last summer, with a killer tan and in that little itty bitty bikini and he STILL didn't write back….it does NOT mean you need to re-evaluate every nuance of your self image and wardrobe selection. People often use the online enviorment to escape and exercise their own agendas. What do I mean by this? It's quite simple: Not everyone is as available as you THINK they are (or how they make themselves out to appear) so STOP taking EVERYTHING so damn seriously! I'm fed up with seeing friends (especially FEMALE friends) quit good dating sites simply because they let their feelings (and egos) get hurt. Keep a positive attitude and keep motoring people - you eye should be on the finish line…and that's getting out, and getting off with love in hand!